Perusing the always fascinating PlanetTrout, when I came upon a blog at Foldis Fly. Found a very interesting pic showing the use of CDC on an emerger pattern. Nice shot.
Happy Mother’s Day…Cutting Mothers some Slack!
I have been told I am stubborn, strong-willed, stoic and too independent for my own good! They are correct, I am all those. My mother had a lot to do with who I am. These were her traits as well, but somehow the very things I find in myself, I resented in her!
Mothers have been blamed for everything from neurosis to psychosis, from nail biting to criminality in their offspring. Mothers have gotten a really bad rap actually! Oh I know we hear a lot about Mom on this special day once a year…how we honor them for the things they do…cooking, cleaning, laundry, and all the things that make home a place for children to thrive.
For some they can go and get the flowers and go get the candy and a card. I did that too, but inside I held a secret (ok maybe not so secret) grudge for her being the way she was. I won’t air all that here, just suffice it to say I had issues with my mother! Then one day, I became the parent, and she the child. Illness, pain and suffering have a way of turning things around. The day she passed away, I hated myself for all the times I remembered the unforgiveness in my heart towards her. Unforgiveness for the very things I find inside myself.
Each Mother’s Day I go into my little box of treasures and remove the card she sent me on my 50th birthday. It simply says: ‘I love you, and I am so proud of all you have become. Love, Mom…’
It is then that I remember the good things. I remember her laughter, her gentle way when we were really sick, her feet and the way she used to say I was just like her. I have the floods of memories come, and there is no bitterness in them now. I remember the way she smelled when she was all dressed up, and the banana nut bread she made so yummy.
And, I remember her issues with her mother. Seems we all have them, they are the ones that we can take out our life’s frustrations on, and know they will love us anyway.
So it is Mother’s Day again. With the recent passing of Switters’ mother, I wanted to honor them, and all mothers. They deserve a break, they deserve us to cut them all some slack…after all, they have US as children! And yes, I am also told I am funny, and giving, and loving, and have my mother’s feet.
Thanks Mom!
Creek